Till my 12th standards things didn't seem to have come in two or in in difficult chices as far as what i can recollect and remember. But i started getting difficult choices after 12 th grade. First of them was; what course to take? which college to join? And i started getting little apprehensive of wat if i mak a wrong choice. when incountry allotment of colleges/institutes for students happened based on their performance i had tough time thinking where to go. CNR or SHerubtse or SAmtse or Paro. Of different colege also which course to take. I had choices to decide.
However by choice or chance a staff from CNR was first to call me offering me to take BSc. Sustainable Development course. There too choice of decision to take the offer or not cropped up. I was given some time to think. After thinking for some and consultation with others i took a firm decision to go for it. There i was settled.
Thereafter my door for other options are closed w.r.t study at least for in-country. However by god's grace who intended to give me an experience, an announcement was made through website and radios and i had an opportunity of hearing it where it says there is a seat for scholarship for B.A.,LL.B . I applied, competed and got selected. After i was selected there again element of choice came into existence; whether to go to CNR as i chose earlier or whether to go to NLSIU, Bangalore and i went for second one after faxing the withdrawal letter to dean of CNR.
God who forsaw good experiences of mine at NLSIU send me down there, i studied there, met with different people and friends of course of same blood color, gained a bit of legal knowledge, drew lessons and insights of importance of hardwork, visited different places, trying different cuisines and enjoying different weather of Bangalore. Journey was great one despite many ups and downs occuring at different point of time differently or simultaneously. I learned to tackle difficulties, manage time, dodge difficulties, letting go things and emotions and trying to find solution to boredom, loneliness and waving ponding emotions. I tasted tears of both happiness and suffering as much as i had a privileges of tasting different substances when my performance didn't meet passing point, when i struggled and battled within myself over being lonely and shy, and most of all when i had to stay and spent my time down there even when i knew the possibility of continuing study is very low after my failure in 2nd year. I chose to look sun of bangakore as cloud and brightness as darness. Heat of sun wasn't strong enough to fight with my depression and stress and win over it. Yet i wore garb of normalcy and sameness because i never wanted sympathy of others and ruin their happiness/comfort. I sort of am used to keeping things witin myself.
After i leave NLSIU i had to go to Director of Royal Law Project (RLP) who sent me to NLSIU for help or to discuss about my probability of continuing at NLSIU. Though kind and compassionate was him he couldn't win over sponsor white & case where they don't take things on compassion ground but with written agreement and i had breached one of the vaguely mentioned terms. After this also there were many instances where choices came in more than one and equally potential and promising like should i quit study and join a small job? Which job? At last i chose to not choose so much and rest for a while. I am relaxing, calming , refreshing and energizing for next battle of choice which will happen next year around the month of mid-feb. There i will have colleges/institutes to choose and that time i hope i will make my decision right even if i didn't take right decidion. Of course it isn't solely in my hands to know where would my decidion finally take as it took me once to law school.
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